So you’re standing in line for your morning coffee and can’t help but notice the beautiful girl standing in front of you. She’s friendly, has a cute smile, seems to be talkative, and there is no sign of a ring on her finger. You want to introduce yourself and get to know her better, but when the opportunity presents itself you just get your coffee and leave.
We’ve heard some sort of scenario similar to this a million times. Even though most people would consider it being shy, there are a few underlying issues that is keeping you from making your move. Today we want to go over a few of them to teach you how to stop being shy.
The Past is the Past
A lot of guys are shy because they’ve been rejected in the past and hated it. Well, we all hate the feeling of being rejected, but you have to put that in the past. Until you do it’s going to be extremely difficult to move forward. Sure people might hook you up with girls along the way, but that is not the best angle.
Don’t you want to choose who is the best fit for you?
Another thing we hear guys tell us is that they have no game. The truth is; women don’t care about your “game” at all. They simply want a person who is honest, considerate, and comfortable to be around. You don’t have to be perfect when you make a first impression, just yourself.
Don’t you want her to like you for who you are?
She’s Out of Your League
When it comes to this area, if you think she’s out of your league before you even approach her…you’ve already lost. Listen, having the right mind set plays a major role in learning how to stop being shy. We understand it won’t always work out, but the more times you try the more comfortable you will feel doing it.
Another thing to consider is the insecurities you have about your own looks. Unfortunately, this is a whole other topic, but you have to figure out a way to overcome it.
Check out Facebook
If you have a Facebook account, head over there and take a look at all your high school friends who are married now. What you are going to find is a lot of guys that you wouldn’t think could ever get a girl.
This is just goes to show you that meeting, talking with, and dating girls is not all about looks. There are so many other factors that come into play, you have just as good of a chance to land her as anyone else.
This may seems like an overly simplistic view on how to stop being shy, but it really doesn’t have to be that difficult. So bring out that confidence and confront the next person you are interested in seeing. If it doesn’t pan out you try again. Eventually it will happen, so DON’T GIVE UP!